If finding the perfect fuck buddy was as simple as snapping our fingers, we would all have nubs for fingers. We would be getting so much action we wouldn’t know what to do with ourselves.
Unfortunately, that’s not the case, and you have to coordinate and test drive your fuck buddy before putting them on your schedule.
This step sounds a little too easy but trusts me it’s quite the tricky one. As nice as picking out the most attractive person and approaching them sounds, chances are they’re probably taken, or you’re too shy. Aim high but not so high you ended up getting played and denied before you have a chance to go to the next level.
You’re striving for a mutual attraction and someone you like physically but not so much emotionally. Stay away from someone you’ve already had a nonsexual connection with because then feelings are involved way too early.
The whole point of a fuck buddy is to refrain from emotional attachment so strictly stick to looks, and you’re ready to go.
Now once you’ve targeted your victim, you have to hint that you’re down for the get down and hope they feel the same. You don’t necessarily give them the title ‘fuck buddy’ just because there is mutual attraction, that would be ridiculous.
Try getting to first base first to see if there is potential for a successful night
Just like a new car, you have to know what you’re getting into before making any commitments, primarily sexual.
I know it’s hard not to get ahead of yourself when thinking you’ve found the hottest fuck buddy but if the hotness doesn’t continue into the bedroom, it’s over. You’re looking for sexual satisfaction and not a sexual charity case.
Looks can be deceiving so before you go ranting about your new potential fuck buddy to get your friends jealous, actually do the damn thing first. You might have successfully passed the second step or heading back to square one.
Don’t lose hope, the more experience you have with step one, the easier this process becomes. You almost get a little too good at spotting the ‘good in bed’ people with as much as eye contact.
It’s important to make sure your plans are compatible or you might never see your fuck buddy again.
Before you start planning out your weekly orgasms, make sure you’re on the same page in regards to all your obligations regarding work, school, family, friends or whatever else you have going on.
Setting a regular time and place for your rendezvous is crucial, so it’s consistent enough even to be given that label.
You will save yourself a lot of time and disappointment if your consistent bang buddies aren’t available because they’re busy. Conflicting schedules sends you back to step one but at least you know you can get passed it!
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